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-[#]: subject: "The open source way of raising a family"
-[#]: via: "https://opensource.com/article/23/3/open-source-family"
-[#]: author: "Ruth Netser https://opensource.com/users/rnetser1"
-[#]: collector: "lkxed"
-[#]: translator: "geekpi"
-[#]: reviewer: " "
-[#]: publisher: " "
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-The open source way of raising a family
-======
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-As a rebellious teenager in the 80s, "because I said so" was a phrase I heard all too often at home. I wasn't really a rebel. I just wanted to be heard and seen as a person starting to articulate their thoughts and emotions.
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-The feeling I had of not being heard or listened to led me to believe that it's important to raise kids who are not afraid to speak up, but who can also learn to adapt. Listening to them and collaborating with kids can also help them be creative and, eventually, allow them to be part of a successful organization.
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-### How children interpret information
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-I didn't intentionally encourage open behaviors for my children, nor did I actively tell my kids to speak up. Nevertheless, on my eldest son's first day of kindergarten, we were called by his teacher. She told us that when she went over the rules of not fighting, pushing, and so on with the class, my kid had raised his hand to tell her that his parents allowed him to dispute and debate all the time.
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-It was true. I let my boys express themselves and be heard. But my kid's words surprised me. Only then did I realize that while I'd been doing something right, the fact is that how my kids act shouldn't just be a reaction to the way we educate them. Nor should we leave it up to them to pick things from second-hand context. That day was a game changer for me, and practicing an open culture officially and proactively entered our home.
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-### Open for growth
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-When I was young, parents and elders were the knowledgeable ones.
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-As a kid, it was not always easy to get information. While I was encouraged to express an opinion, it was only up to the point where it was a normative and "easy to digest" one. Today, parents and teachers and kids all have the same means to access data. What you do with it is entirely up to you.
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-For example, when playing Scattergories in Hebrew, the word "virus" is normally the only animal starting with "V" that most people play. To gain more points, we decided to find additional animal names that qualified. In no time, we found not one but three new animals (my kid's teacher argued that a "wallaby" (spelled with a "V" in Hebrew) was not a real thing, but that's another story).
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-I teach my kids to read between the lines and never to accept things presented to them as "facts" without question. This allows them to practice critical thinking. It also allows them to question me, which leads us to open and transparent discussions.
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-Are these discussions easy? No. Do I always have the energy to conduct them? Absolutely not.
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-However, to help them practice the learn-to-listen "muscle," these conversations are a must.
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-Occasionally, we have to force ourselves to find time to focus our attention on our family. It takes time to build a robust and open culture, and as people change so does your family culture. You have to adapt and work to keep it alive. As leader of the pack, I have to provide my kids with a safe place, a place where they can openly share their ideas, a place where they feel belonging.
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-In a family, you have to collaborate and solve problems together. Listening to the different ideas and approaches to solving issues allows you to come up with creative (and yet not always to everyone's liking) solutions.
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-One issue in my home was the noise in the house when playing computer games. This happens mostly late at night and on the weekends. We sat down together and came up with an agreed-upon timeslot for noisy games. From then on, those who wanted to play knew when they could play, and those seeking some quiet time also knew when those times would happen. As kids grow up, the nature of the decisions and discussions change.
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-Does it mean that all decisions are shared with the kids? No. Does it mean that it's all roses? Absolutely not.
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-Encouraging kids to connect may end up with a broken vase for which no one seems to be accountable. It may lead to "because I said so" to pop in for a visit. However, having challenging yet inclusive conversations, encouraging innovative thinking, and including kids in decisions are ways of preparing them for adulthood. Hopefully, it'll make them better people, too (so far, this is working well, in my humble opinion.)
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-### Open family culture
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-Practicing open culture is not a one-time thing. It's a journey, and it's a mindset. I believe it provides both my kids and me the tools to be resilient, open-minded, tolerant, and inquisitive both inside the house and out. Start an open culture with those closest to you, and take it with you everywhere you go.
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-via: https://opensource.com/article/23/3/open-source-family
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-作者：[Ruth Netser][a]
-选题：[lkxed][b]
-译者：[译者ID](https://github.com/译者ID)
-校对：[校对者ID](https://github.com/校对者ID)
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-本文由 [LCTT](https://github.com/LCTT/TranslateProject) 原创编译，[Linux中国](https://linux.cn/) �誉推出
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-[a]: https://opensource.com/users/rnetser1
-[b]: https://github.com/lkxed/
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+[#]: subject: "The open source way of raising a family"
+[#]: via: "https://opensource.com/article/23/3/open-source-family"
+[#]: author: "Ruth Netser https://opensource.com/users/rnetser1"
+[#]: collector: "lkxed"
+[#]: translator: "geekpi"
+[#]: reviewer: " "
+[#]: publisher: " "
+[#]: url: " "
+
+开�的养家之�
+======
+
+作为 80 年代的�逆少年，“因为我这么说�是我在家里�常�到的一��。我并�是一个真正的�逆者。我�是想让别人�到我的声音，把我看�是一个开始表达自己想法和情感的人。
+
+我那��被倾�或��的感觉让我相信，培养�害怕说�的孩�很��，但他们也能学会适应。倾�他们的��，与孩�们�作，也�以帮助他们�挥创造力，最终让他们�为�功组织的一部分。
+
+### 孩�们如何解释信�
+
+我并没有刻�鼓励孩�们的开放行为，也没有主动告诉孩�们�大声说�。尽管如此，在我大儿�上幼儿园的第一天，他的�师给我们打电�。她告诉我们，当她和全��学一起讨论�打架��推�等规则时，我的孩�举手告诉她，他的父��许他一直争论和辩论。
+
+这是真的。我让我的孩�们表达自己的��，并让他们�到。但我孩�的�让我感到惊讶。直到那时我��识到，虽然我一直在�正确的事情，但事实上，我的孩�们的行为�应该�是对我们教育他们的方�的�应。我们也�应该让他们从二手语境中挑选东西。那一天对我�说是一个游�规则的改�，践行开放的文化正�主动地进入我们的家庭。
+
+### 为�长而开放
+
+在我�的时候，父�和长辈是有知识的人。
+
+作为一个孩�，�获得信�并�容易。虽然我被鼓励表达��，但也�是到了一个规范的�“容易消化�的程度。今天，父���师和孩�都有�样的手段�获�数�。你如何处�它，完全�决于你。
+
+例如，在用希伯�语玩 Scattergories 时，“病毒�一�通常是大多数人玩的唯一以 “V� 开头的动物。为了获得更多的分数，我们决定寻找其他符��件的动物�称。�一会儿，我们就找到了�是一�而是三�新的动物（我孩�的�师认为“�袋鼠�（希伯�语中以 “V� 拼写）�是一�真实的东西，但这是�一个故事）。
+
+我教我的孩�阅读字里行间的内容，决���加质疑地接�作为“事实�呈现给他们的东西。这使他们能够练习批判性�维。这也使他们能够质疑我，从而使我们进行公开和�明的讨论。
+
+这些讨论容
+易�？�是。我总是有精力进行这些讨论�？�对�是。
+
+然而，为了帮助他们练习学会倾�的“肌肉�，这些对�是必须的。
+
+�尔，我们必须强迫自己找到时间，把注�力集中在家庭上。建立一个强大而开放的文化需�时间，��人们的�化，你的家庭文化也在�化。你必须适应并努力��它的活力。作为群体的领导者，我必须为我的孩�们�供一个安全的地方，一个他们�以公开分享自己想法的地方，一个他们有归属感的地方。
+
+在一个家庭中，你们必须�作，共�解决问题。倾���的想法和解决问题的方法�以让你想出创造性的（但并�总是符��个人的喜好）解决方案。
+
+我家里的一个问题是玩电脑游�时家里的噪音。这�情况大多�生在深夜和周末。我们一起�下�，想出了一个商定的嘈�游�的时间段。从那时起，那些想玩的人知�他们什么时候�以玩，而那些寻求一些安�时间的人也知�这些时间会�生什么。��孩�们的长大，决定和讨论的性质也�生了�化。
+
+这是��味�所有的决定都与孩�们分享？�。这是��味�都是玫瑰花？�对�是。
+
+鼓励孩�们建立�系�能会以一个破花瓶告终，似乎没有人对此负责。这�能会导致“因为我这么说��拜访。然而，进行具有挑战性但�具有包容性的对��鼓励创新�维以�让孩��与决策都是让他们为�年�好准备的方法。希望它也能让他们�为更好的人（到目�为止，以我的拙�，这�作良好）。
+
+### 开放的家庭文化
+
+实行开放的文化�是一次性的事情。它是一个旅程，也是一�心�。我相信它为我和我的孩�们�供了工具，使他们在屋内和屋外都能�韧�拔��想开放�宽容和充满好奇心。与你最亲近的人开始一�开放的文化，并带�它走�天下。
+
+--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
+
+via: https://opensource.com/article/23/3/open-source-family
+
+作者：[Ruth Netser][a]
+选题：[lkxed][b]
+译者：[geekpi](https://github.com/geekpi)
+校对：[校对者ID](https://github.com/校对者ID)
+
+本文由 [LCTT](https://github.com/LCTT/TranslateProject) 原创编译，[Linux中国](https://linux.cn/) �誉推出
+
+[a]: https://opensource.com/users/rnetser1
+[b]: https://github.com/lkxed/